Client experiences
What it's like to work with Jess
One to one, in small groups, or in the room at a talk or training
"I feel so much lighter and freer about the whole situation."
Anonymous client
4.9★ on The Grief Recovery Method® (13 reviews) · 5★ on Google (10 reviews) · Clients across the UK, Europe and the US
One to one work with Jess
Bereavement, divorce, estrangement, and losses that are unseen or don't always get a name.
"I found Jess at my absolute lowest. I felt like I was trapped in loops of grief and felt very alone and depressed... I cannot stress how much this process has changed me and my approach to grief. I feel like I've reached an emotional clarity and mental state in 6 months that I never had close to in my life before. I now have a framework of how to process future losses that will come. I picked up an invaluable skill from this work — I understand how to feel pain properly, let it flow through me and actually cry."
Tom, London
"I could not have asked for a better person to facilitate this process. Jess was incredibly well-informed, empathetic, kind and strong, creating a very trusting and caring environment to do the work... Jess is amazing."
Mike Benson
Co-owner & CCO, Berliner Benson
"Supportive, friendly but above all effective — a fresh perspective, a new lease of life, and even more energy to deal with future challenges."
Martin Oxford
"Jess is one of the kindest human beings I have ever met."
GRM client, verified review
"The dialogue and ability to explore with Jess, a very painful past relationship, allowed me to come to a much greater clarity in the midst of conflicting and mixed emotions… In short, the stormy emotions and torment have ceased, replaced with clarity and acceptance and more mature, balanced and calm emotions. I am very grateful for the experience with Jess."
Gil Dove
Managing Director, Gil Dove Associates
"She is smart, empathetic, strong and compassionate. I cannot recommend her highly enough."
Maxine Macpherson
Managing Director, AbleMaxx Ltd.
"A gentle and compassionate review of your relationship which ends with completion of outstanding or unfinished emotions. It was a profound and fulfilling experience…I am grateful to Jess for her humility and support which really helped me reach a place of peace and enabled me to move forward."
Adrienne Seaman, London
Group Programme
A small, closed group working the same structured method as one-to-one — eight sessions, online or in person. Can combine well with very occasional one-to-one sessions for extra support.
"Jess provided a safe space so I could dig deep into all the emotions — not just the grief. I especially appreciated her soothing voice and her overall way of guiding all of us in a way that would not overwhelm the nervous system."
Nataša, Berlin
"This programme was really helpful compared to the courses, reading and coaching I've done so far... I did this with an incredible group of people too. I'll never forget it."
GRM client, verified review
"I can see how the success of completing this programme is highly dependent on the skills and knowledge of the facilitator. Jess could clearly explain all of the steps whilst handholding us through the entire process. Her patience, listening skills and compassion helped her create a safe space for our group where we all felt comfortable and safe dealing with our painful, conflicting emotions during this vulnerable time. I highly recommend working with Jess and engaging in the Grief Recovery Programme."
Hope, Berkshire
"It has nourished my soul and soothed my heart in ways I didn't think possible. The process offered gentle guidance through difficult emotions, creating space for healing and hope. Every person felt seen, heard, and valued."
Fiona, Barcelona
Talks and Workshops
Reactions from a keynote, a webinar, or in-house training on grief and loss at work.
"Jess communicates in a way that is so highly professional and polished – I could probably listen to her voice read out a takeaway menu! With Jess, it always feels more like a conversation and not just a broadcast."
Kevin Self, Founder, Purpose Nation
"I came away feeling uplifted and strangely excited that there probably is a positive way forward, even carrying a 'rucksack' of grief!"
Jenny, after a talk in Oxfordshire
"So useful to listen to others' experiences and to look at dispelling the myths surrounding grieving."
Linda Flanigan
Clinical Hypnotherapist & NLP Practitioner
“Jess Goyder’s style and approach are seamless. When she keynoted at our event, she captivated the entire audience with her authenticity and warmth. She has a unique ability to connect with people on a deep level, creating a safe, inclusive environment where every voice feels heard. Her engaging presence and thoughtful insights sparked meaningful conversations and left a lasting impression. Jess didn’t just deliver a keynote – she created a special, memorable experience for everyone”.
Marianne Whitlock, Co-founder and Director, Strategic PA Recruitment and Network
Jess’ work is supportive, inspiring, and memorable; she just ‘gets it’ and to me she is a ‘horse whisperer in her own profession.’
Anonymous webinar attendee
"What a wonderful session. I feel like I've taken so much away from it."
Jody Beard, Executive Assistant
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If you'd like to explore whether this is right for you
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Prefer group support? Join the waiting list for the Autumn 2026 group programme.